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Most of us enjoyed the support of aunts, uncles
cousins and grandparents when
we were growing up. We occasionally visited these
family members overnight as soon as we were old enough to spend
a night away from mother. These visits were usually somewhat traumatic experiences
that taught us early lessons of independence.
Foster children do not have extended families available; a respite system can
meet this need.
With a respite system, children occasionally visit overnight with a second
foster family. This home is known as a "respite
home". The child visits the home periodically and usually
sleeps over at least one night. Weekend visits are the most
common. Thus, the young person has a second home where he or she is
known and welcome. A respite family is sort of like having surrogate
cousins!
Respite families provide fulltime families (and the children) an opportunity for a
break. Everyone needs a break once in a while. Also, respite
homes serve other purposes:
- To provide additional opportunities not available in the primary
home. Foster children learn ways that other families relate to
each other, work together, solve problems and have fun.
The respite home may be able to offer training or experience (such as the
chance to work on a farm or to learn to sew) which is not available
in the primary home.
- To provide an alternative home if the primary home can't be used for any
reason. There are many specific occasions when a child must move
temporarily to the respite home. The primary home may have an emergency, such as the death of a relative, and they may depart
suddenly and be away for a few days.
- If a child or young person has to be moved to a different primary home,
the respite home may be chosen as the new primary home. If this is
not appropriate, the respite home may be used until the new primary home
is selected. Thus, the need to make hasty decisions is avoided, and
the client is not suddenly uprooted and parted temporarily with
strangers.
Sometimes foster children resist the first respite visit. It is important
that the plans be made carefully to insure that fun activities are
planned and the young person's needs are considered. Once the
initial visits completed and everyone becomes acquainted, the respite
system is usually perceived as a source of strength, support and FUN!
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